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Patience - Staying focused on what really matters to us when we're faced with frustration and difficulty.
Persistence - Choosing to keep working toward our goal when we face setbacks and obstacles.
False Urgency - A trick to distract you from your goal by convincing you that you must take care of a less important problem right away or else - something bad will happen or you could miss out on something great.
As activists, we work to change the unfair rules and how our community treats our most vulnerable members. This is big work - and can take many years (or generations) to create the change we want to see.
Many people disagree with us, and like the rules we see as unfair. Some want the same changes as us - but believe the way we create change is wrong. Many misunderstand the changes we want, and most people don’t even know about the unfairness. People who want to stop and slow our work oppose our activism - creating setbacks and obstacles that will exhaust and frustrate us.
Instead of letting opposition and obstacles wear us down and give up, we weaponize patient persistence.
To keep going even if our work doesn’t create change right away. To keep going even when it seems like we will never succeed. Our elder activists have shown that persistence and patience is vital to big change - and we are up to that challenge.
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Talk about this topic with an adult who you trust to be honest with you..
When's the last time you got frustrated waiting for something you really wanted?
How did you get those frustrated feelings out?
How do you want to react the next time you get frustrated?
Who worked hard so you could live safer and happier today?
What opposition did they face?
How did they deal with big feelings and frustration through setbacks?
When do you find yourself rushing through your activities?
What are you afraid will happen if you don't rush?
How does rushing change how well you do these activities?
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Flex your brain using what you've learned & discover what's within your control to change.
Cook a pot of pasta (quick), lentils (quick-ish), or dried beans (slow).
Taste the food early, middle, and late in the cooking process.
How does waiting change how tasty our food is?
What else gets better with time?
Create sensory bottles to shake up when you're frustrated and soothe yourself as the glitter settles.
Bonus points if you can create your own non-recyclable plastic confetti from the bin instead of filling the world with more non-biodegradable glitter.
Create TWO cute bear bowls out of air-dry clay.
Paint one bowl and use it before the clay has dried.
How is finishing the bowls different depending on whether you wait for the clay to cure?
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More on how adult reliability impacts kids' ability to stay patient and persevere.
via The University of Rochester
By staying tenacious and resilient, we can keep working together toward the future we want.
Via Raising Luminaries
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